Sister Marian Abing 

Growing up in a large family of ten children was interesting, fun, and challenging. I was third oldest, and I helped care for the seven younger than me. That always was my responsibility through grade school and high school until I left for the convent in Milwaukee.

In the convent, I developed many good friendships in my large class. I began discerning whether I would remain in the convent or return home, and how long my time there might be. Thankfully, I was happy, worked hard, studied to become an excellent teacher, and started a long life of ministry in education.

My many years in the Catholic schools were encouraging and challenging. They helped me grow with good friends and become a fine educator. As a student teacher with Alverno College, I also helped train the young teachers and inspired them in their studies. I loved being a teacher and wanted to help, encourage, and touch many young people’s lives.

I taught for many years and then wanted to become a high school teacher of religious studies, and, later, a counselor for young people. I always worked hard, was kind and encouraging, and helped my students. It was as a high school teacher that I helped students learn many things, become educated, and be ready for college.

Students loved my stories and many of my explanations of the religious studies. They also worked hard, then finished their classes and continued on in their lives. Even after so many years as a teacher and counselor, I keep in touch with many of my students.

I kept my vows faithfully and was a fine teacher for 46 years. I also became a formation director for the community and happily worked with young women who were considering becoming a religious sister. Many women chose this path, and I helped, encouraged, and inspired them. It was a very important position, and I happily did it for a few years.

Next, I started volunteering in schools and in other ways that I could help people. This was a good experience for me. I enjoyed getting to know new personnel and learning why people chose to work in public institutions, as well as the importance of non-religious institutions. I began to understand why people took public jobs, helped everyone that needed some assistance, and understood the importance of the work being done in non-religious settings.

After my many years working in Catholic schools, I began volunteering with people who are sick and nearing death. I wanted to help them, so I decided to take training and see what I could do to assist those who are sick. I began working with the organization Hospice of the Valley in 2011. It has been fifteen years now, and I have helped many women who are preparing for their death. I help women who are sick, worried, or maybe scared about dying. This is not easy for anyone, but I can help them talk, share, speak about death, or simply sit quietly with them.

All of this continues to help me understand just how important this ministry can be, and raises my awareness of my own final days and years.

Sister Marian, we thank you for your 70 years of ministry to children, youth, and those who are preparing for their death.