Living only a block away from St. Matthias Convent in Chicago, I was in frequent contact with the School Sisters of St. Francis. As an elementary school girl, I was fascinated by them. I can still vividly recall how much I wanted to be around them. As a teenager, I would often walk over to the convent and have long visits with Sister Adolphus.
Being an only child, my parents were not in favor of my decision to enter religious life, especially right after eighth grade, so I led what might be termed a “normal” high school life, all the while continuing to keep my dream alive. That early fascination became a reality in 1954, when I eagerly joined the School Sisters as a postulant. I knew immediately this was the right path for me. I loved the fact that I, an only child, now lived with over 80 young women I already considered sisters.
Over the many years that followed, I experienced several memorable and significant moments. A few true stepping stones along the way:
- Claiming my first classroom as a teacher at St. Rita in West Allis, Wisconsin;
- Partnering with Alverno College as a critic teacher who assisted in the training of our young sisters for future teaching;
- Founding a new school in Schiller Park, Illinois;
- Receiving a Pastoral Studies master’s degree at Loyola University of Chicago;
- Moving out of elementary education and becoming a Pastoral Associate and Director of Adult Education at St. Anne in Barrington, Illinois;
- Finally, after more than 50 years, leaving the faith-filled, progressive community of Barrington and retiring to Maria Linden Apartments in Milwaukee.
It’s a joy to remember these special moments, and all the people, opportunities, and unexpected blessings as I celebrate 70 years as a School Sister of St. Francis.
In retrospect, two things stand out across my years of teaching and ministry. First, I always knew I had made the right choice for my life. Second, with some exceptions, I accepted change and even welcomed it in my life, in our community, and especially within the Church. I was on the side of change when it meant progress and betterment.
So where am I now? As I reflect, I know I’ve been shaped by the many events and experiences of my life, those on the main road and those that led me along meaningful side roads. But I also recognize that the journey continues. I must go on with the same hope and commitment to making both my small world and the larger world a better place.
How do I spend my days now? I’m guided by a directive from Benedictine Sister Joan Chittister in her book, In the Life of Years: “Set out to make tomorrow happy.” Her words challenge me to seek out ways to create activities and relationships that provide an aura of happiness for myself and those I meet every day. This may include participating in group activities with friends, book clubs, exercise, Scripture classes, working on puzzles, knitting shawls for the sick and homebound, helping decorate Maria Linden for the seasons, or simply lending a hand wherever it’s needed.
In conclusion, what began as a childhood fascination has matured into deep admiration and gratitude. Thank you, School Sisters, for your presence in my early life, your example and encouragement in my days of ministry, and your kindness and friendship, especially now at Maria Linden.